Responding appropriately in our speech is a sign of maturity. However the easy path is to react. Responding takes into account what is appropriate to say in the particular situation. Responding is sensitive and discerning to where the other person is coming from. When we learn to respond well, relationships are strengthened, enriched and valued.
Reacting, on the other hand, does not weigh the consequences of the words being shared and focuses on the release of emotion at the expense of the other person. When we react, relationships are hurt, fractured and create fear.
"Let your speech always be with grace, as though seasoned with salt, so that you will know how you should respond to each person." (Colossians 4:6)
What helps you "respond" well vs. "reacting" in your relationships?
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